Michelle Obama has finally shut down rumours that she and former President Barack Obama are headed for a divorce.
The former first lady sat down with actress Sophia Bush for an episode of her podcast Work in She explained her decision to skip President Jimmy Carter's funeral, and President Donald Trump's inauguration were simply decisions she made for herself.
Her absence at both high-profile political events sparked divorce rumours, with President Obama admitting last week that he was in a 'deep deficit' with his wife .
'That's the thing that we as women, I think we struggle with disappointing people. I mean, so much so that this year people were, you know, they couldn't even fathom that I was making a choice for myself that they had to assume that my husband and I are divorcing,' Michelle said in the podcast episode, released Tuesday.
'That this couldn't be a grown woman just making a set of decisions for herself, right?' she continued.
Obama added: 'That's what society does to us.'
'We start actually, finally going, "What am I doing? Who am I doing this for?" And if it doesn't fit into the sort of stereotype of what people think we should do, then it gets labeled as something negative and horrible.'
The former first lady turned 61 on January 17 and spoke candidly to Bush about questions she's asking about how she wants to spend the twilight of her life.
'So you know, now is the time for me to start asking myself these hard questions of who do I truly want to be every day,' Obama said. She said that looks 'like whatever I want it to look like.'
'And I still find time to you know, give speeches, to be out there in the world, to work on projects. I still care about girls' education,' Obama said. 'We you know, the library is opening in a year from now.'
The former first lady acknowledged that there are 'certain things I am and am not doing' with President Obama's presidential library, which is being constructed on Chicago's South Side.
'But the interesting thing is that when I say no, for the most part, people are like, I get it, and I'm OK, right?' she continued.
